intelligence.md · Ep 04 · 5 November 2026 · 53 min
Feeling Behind on AI? How to Learn AI Without Doing It Alone
with Fey Pelleg · hosted by Kerstin Dallinger
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About this episode
Fey Pelleg, founder of AI Goddesses and a former software architect and team lead, explains how to learn AI when it feels too big. In conversation with host Kerstin Dallinger, she describes how her global community of women learns through small, personal activities done together, and why she thinks even teams that had AI training often still don't feel comfortable with it. In a live Gemini demo she turns a simple prompt template into a quilt-style infographic, then explains why AI output tends to look the same and how to give it a style of your own. They also discuss what a company can take from her approach, how much time team training takes, the fear that work will run out, and an audience question about the energy cost of AI. The episode helps business owners, team leads and anyone who feels behind on AI and wants a simple way to start or to bring a team along.
Key takeaways
How do you learn AI when it feels overwhelming?
Fey Pelleg, founder of AI Goddesses, says the fear comes from not knowing where to start and feeling that it is too big, and that a project that is too big fails fast. She starts people on something small and playful where no specific result is needed, so there is nothing to fail at. Once you have made something with AI, she says, it is hard to ignore that you can do it (6:31, 7:16).
Why don't teams use AI after training?
Fey says even teams that were trained in AI probably still don't feel comfortable with it. As far as she remembers, most workplace training was very technical, with no playful moment and no creative project (32:41). She adds that it is often something you complete on your own, or a Zoom call where one person talks while others turn off their cameras and cook dinner (34:57).
How can a company get a reluctant team to try AI?
Fey suggests learning together and in a playful way, with whatever tool the team already uses. Do it as a group, share what each person makes, and keep the task light, for example by taking your latest task and making it a comic book. She says people who are not expected to succeed and have a personal connection to what they are doing are far happier to learn and remember it later (33:23, 34:00, 35:35). Kerstin Dallinger adds that in a heavily regulated space such as Europe, not every tool is usable, especially free ones (31:34).
How do you avoid the AI slop look?
Fey says AI has a default style: give it no instructions about style and you get the look everyone has, the same and a bit overpacked. Naming a specific style, even one word like "quilt", already changes a lot, and you can also give it reference images or the names of styles you like (23:55, 24:24). If you don't want to decide yourself, she suggests asking the AI to act as your design expert and recommend a style for your message and audience (25:56).
How much time does AI training take?
Fey recommends about two to four months if you do it once a week, adjusted to how much your team works with AI (36:48). She suggests writing down what you want to achieve and what it would save, and mentions a student whose week-long task took two minutes live in class (37:01, 37:21). As a team lead, she ran a weekly training during work hours instead of the stand-up (37:57).
What if AI makes my work run out?
Fey says the work would run out anyway, because AI is not going away and the people working in your field later will be the ones who know how to use it, so your time is better spent learning the tools (40:26). From her own experience, work doesn't seem to run out in companies: her development team of about 10 people always had a backlog of at least a year (41:23, 41:31). If you do run out, she suggests adding projects that still benefit the company (42:03).
Chapters
- 0:00Am I learning AI fast enough?
- 0:46Welcome: the people side of AI
- 3:35Meet Fey Pelleg and AI Goddesses
- 5:54When AI feels overwhelming
- 8:05How AI Goddesses works
- 10:18Why you learn more together
- 12:06What if someone shows up reluctant?
- 12:40Online or in person?
- 14:09Hands-on: a fun-style infographic in Gemini
- 16:41How Fey builds an activity
- 19:09The prompt template
- 20:42The result: a quilt poster made live
- 23:04How to avoid the AI slop look
- 27:21AI is a mirror
- 29:13What AI does not replace
- 31:12What a team can take from this
- 36:01How much time is enough?
- 38:38What if my work runs out?
- 44:20Three takeaways
- 45:47Where to find Fey
- 47:26Q&A: the energy cost of AI
- 52:23Next session and goodbye